Knowing Yourself is Extremely Hard
Ben Franklin once wrote, “Three things are extremely hard; steel, a diamond, and to know one’s self.” He was right and I think knowing one’s self is the hardest of the three. Understanding who we are—and why we do what we do—takes time, effort, and courage. All three are in short supply in an age […]
Will the Truth Set You Free?
While watching the news recently, I heard someone accused of a crime say, “The truth will set me free.” I hear that line quoted a lot. Almost always with confidence. Almost always without context. When it comes to influence, words matter, context matters, and so does truth. Jesus actually said something more precise—and far more […]
A Decade Later The Southwest Split Persists
I wrote the following in February 2016. It was about a negative experience I had with Southwest Airlines. Because of it, I stopped flying them from that point forward. In hindsight, Southwest lost a loyal customer and gained nothing. On the other hand, I’ve enjoyed great experiences with United, American, and Delta. Their prices and […]
Whether or Not to Reciprocate During Troubling Times
I wrote the post below in the summer of 2025. Given the recent events in Minneapolis, it’s worth revisiting. Leaders on both sides of the immigration issue need to ratchet down rather ratchet up or more people will be hurt or possibly killed. The Apostle Peter tells Christians, “Do not repay evil with evil or […]
Why Faith Shapes How We Influence, Even at Work
When I started my career in July 1986—fresh out of Miami University and working for Travelers Insurance—the workplace looked very different than it does today. A few obvious examples: No laptops or smartphones No working from home Suit and tie every day But one of the biggest differences had nothing to do with technology or […]
